Love myself first

Growing up I always heard my mother say she "I put my kids first", I later learn I did the same thing, I put my Daughter and my husband before I considered myself. And I remembered loosing my way of what I wanted for myself, asking myself, what did I want to do? What did I like? Where did I want to go? In short who was I? I had lost my focus, I had given away my power , passion and  purpose. I was not myself, I was empty and even through I had lots of friends and family I felt alone. I needed to get my Power, Passion and Purpose back so I did. Do anyone know what I am talking about?